H told me last month im holding on because im afraid to be thrown into the void. Maybe its that and maybe its just cause I love fhis man and can't see life without him.
Like I said, it takes time.
Feeling like you've "failed" is also part of the process. You have not failed.
In a business partnership if one partner gambles away all the capital and the business folds, the other partner is not responsible for anyone else's flaws.
We all have to move beyond and understand the "emotions" in order to heal from the pain and "detach". The feelings are devastating; we've all experienced them; and you know that already. But it is difficult to work on a M or much else from this emotional place.
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one comment about "failure"...
if my m were to end today, does that mean the 30 YEARS OF M WE HAVE EXPERIENCED, HAVE ALL FAILED?
Or could it mean 25 were great and the last 5 failed?
OR maybe just the last one? See where I'm going with this?
Point is, you can't wipe OUT ALL the other stuff you've done b/c one person decides to end a relationship. It's ONE relationship...with 2 people in it.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
