been reading your sitch and wondering...life is funny isn't it?
Just wondering though, what would YOU do differently if you two were together again?
How would the R or marriage be different than before?
How have YOU changed?
If I were him, I'd want to know why this time around would be different.
I read the sitch you described about his illness and the cat. But I didn't hear a lot about what you learned from that. More like "we both" made mistakes and all that.
I can understand you wanting him to get well and seek out help and felt frustrated by his not doing it.
The rest of what you said happened and about the choices you made, I didn't understand.
Good luck, I'm crossing my fingers for you.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016