I'm not sure if this is too extreme, but I changed my phone number today and I'm not giving it to her. If she needs me bad enough she can email me...we both have iPhones and I have mine with me 24/7.
I just can't deal with her giving small clues that she interested then totally ignoring me. I cannot move on if we are still going to have contact. I feel like my goals have shifted from doing things for me to doing things for us. It's draining.
She left me. If she doesn't want me in her world then she needs to leave me alone. I feel bad doing this, but I have to for my sake.
this totally confused me. The day before, you say You sent her a "sincere" apology for your role in things and supposedly had no expectations attached...she didn't reply and (probably has to process a lot)
sooo....you got mad??...and now you want to hide or what?
I don't get it. You HAVE to have contact with her about the kids...and I didn't see her being confusing so much as civil.
What triggered this?
I don't have an Iphone. Is there some way she can contact you without having a number?
Was she calling you too often? You texted her the long text about her coming to the bbq, and she said "thank you"...are there other things she did you forgot to mention?
Or are you simply feeling so bad that you must "DO something"...???
that ^^^ rarely helps...imo
so I guess my answer is, yes it seems extreme and ineffective if not unnecessary as well.
I dont' see how it even helps you. Please explain.
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