If you want a new m with her, it'll have to be "from this day forward."
Trust on both sides needs to be rebuilt. What do you feel YOU have changed about YOURSELF
since the separation?
IOW why should your w feel that m to you now, would be better than before?
What is different?
It's key that this is clear, or recon is not that likely.
And there is great downside to rushing a recon
but little downside to rebuilding carefully, and slowly, so that the foundation is strong.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
