after seeing Bond getting blasted for such reasonable posts even though you say you want
straight feedback and all, I am wary of saying too much here...but here goes...
What were your w's complaints about You before all this OW stuff began? What, specifically is different about YOU than before?
She won't return to the m if she thinks it'll be more of the same. Accept that reality.
So what would make HER think the m would be better now, than before?
BTW- you can't convince her she was happy but she just didn't know it; and
you cannot convince her she "should" have been happy;
you have to convince her it can be better...so, what's new with YOU?
Dig deep. Try not to lash out. (And that's not me being sarcastic but honest.)
You did say you wanted people to give feedback and not sugarcoat it, or am I confusing you with someone else? If so, sorry.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
