Money, money, money. What to do?

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Things have been calm and quiet between us. Had a great Labor Day weekend and enjoyed family time.

Early this week W emailed me with fears of money. "I'm worried and things are very tight. " I didn't respond at all and when we did talk I did not mention what she had said.

Friday she called me at work and was desperate. "I can't make this month's mortgage payment. I need to call the bank." I listened to her complain about how her credit card has been used to cover overdraft of her checking account and other troubles. What caught me was her use of I not we or ours.

I only offered to call cable co to reduce services and even to buy groceries. No thanks on the but please call cable.

My head and heart wanted to say, I want to come home to fix this.

What do I do? Things have been ok but I don't want to pressure her.

Thanks