Found out a while back my H had some tickets to a show that was coming this weekend. Great seats, very expensive. He didn't tell me about them, so I really thought it was supposed to be a surprise for me (we had agreed not to see other people even though we are separated). It was to a show we both liked, too.
I kept waiting and waiting, but he never mentioned either the show, or that he wanted to so something on that date. Today we were talking, and I asked him what his plans were for the upcoming week/weekend (the show is Saturday). He told me he had plans to go off with a friend on Saturday, so obviously those tickets weren't for me.
Am I an idiot, or is there an OW? These are not tickets you would take a guy friend to.
So, of course I let my DBing fly out the window and asked him about the tickets. He flipped out and claims they were supposed to be a surprise for me (yeah, right, how were you going to deliver a surprise on a day you told me you had other plans??).
I know I shouldn't have said anything at all, but I just couldn't stop myself. He went crazy not long ago when he thought I might be 'talking' to OM (I wasn't) but now he's seeing someone? I told him I just wanted him to be honest, if he is seeing someone I have a right to know since we agreed to it. I was very calm about it, no yelling/crying, etc.
