Thought it would be done by now...part 2

[25yearsmlc]

life

I didn't even want to go there b/c I guess, I don't see the point.


You have to stop looking at the shore behind you if you are going to make it to the other side...otherwise

you tread water, and

sometimes go under a bit....

make sense?

I mean, does OW really matter? If so, why? Can you articulate why she matters?

What if your doctor said "Oh I did a brain scan of your h. He has a defect. He will behave this way for 12 years..."

Or
"He has a normal brain. He is making bad choices. He will be this way until his brain is hit or smashed but that has a downside..."

OR

"he's an alcoholic with some severe emotional problems (my guess) and is acting out on them now. Might do so for the rest of his life..."

What then, Life?


You'd say "gotta protect myself/kids..." and you'd be right.

So...?? You THINK understanding OW will do what for you?

Understand your h?

It won't.

And she's not the problem AND she's not that understandable.

If she's just like you, or the opposite, it changes nothing...

See my point? The real question is-

How do you want to spend your precious LIMITED time on earth,

and all of your energy?

Trying to understand a man who has made decisions no one else understands?

Which may NEVER be comprehensible...( I say that from personal experience)

OR GAL and moving forward?


He'll know where you are and how to reach you and the kids....he always has...