I can't imagine how you feel. I am so sorry. So, so sorry.

I know that you never thought THIS would be your life/marriage. I'm so sorry.

Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011
2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011
He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011
He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011