Hmmm pompous? I think not. So you have a way of having your youngest child communicate with you yet you didn't post it here. Pompous? No. It's from your lack of describing. And seriously, if something were to happen to your kids, how do you expect to hear from your W? Email? Bottom line is that if you want to save your M you are going to have to maintain friendly communication with her. Closing the lines is your right, but it won't necessarily get your W back.
She may call when she wishes to, however it is your choice on whether or not to accept the call. It's as simple as that.
"but don't start posting about me not being responsible when it comes to my kids."
Hmmm I don't see where I said you were irresponsible. That's what you assume. You do that alot. Is that how you are with your W? You make alot of big noise about stuff that wasn't even written and take things very personally. If that's how you communicate with your W, that may be something that should be looked into.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.