Ok meltdown averted, about to get on a plane where I plan to read the DR book which finally arrived. Straight to the LRT section!
Good cam. Stick to your plan. As for my sitch, I only brought it up to say to you that you never know what is going to happen. I started by doing just what you are doing. Going fairly dark and giving her space. My sitch is no where close to be a success story... but I still have hope 9 months later. Where I have messed up, is by doing things like you ALMOST did tonight. we have to have will power when we are feeling that way. Stay the course.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
