Just want to say hi. I'm brand new to this, but what happened to me is a lot like what happened to you. Distancer/pursuer totally, from the beginning. Just got the bomb at the beginning of this summer, and just discovered these forums. H wants to be the good guy, everyone happily go on with us being great friends. Only we're still brand new to this so he hasn't moved out, and I have imagined that as being the same punch in the gut that you described. I cannot believe it could happen. But he acts completely irrationally so why not. I don't have any good advice for you, just see you as a kindred spirit and hope for the best for you. I'm sorry too this has hurt your boys. As a mom I know you try to prevent anyone from hurting your kids, and then you find their own dad doing it. Awful. I'll be thinking of you. Adinva
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
