I get what you are trying to say and there is some merit to it. There's a lot more to the story than what I post here. The lines of communication are open both ways between my kids and I. I know exactly what goes on in my kids world every day of their lives. I'm not sure who you normally deal with but I'm certainly not stupid. I have it setup where if there's an emergency she will be able to get a hold of me. I've had my bases covered from the beginning.
I'm not going to get into a war of words with you here. I have more things to worry about then you or your opinion. I have nothing to prove to you. Yes, I am hurt. Just because you've "been there done that" doesn't give you a right to act like a pompous ass. If you have something to say, I'll listen...but don't start posting about me not being responsible when it comes to my kids. That is attacking me as a father and I will not tolerate that. I know you have a lot of experience with this stuff...I respect that...and I'm sure I can learn a lot from you. You're advice is more than welcome...you're accusations are not.