Funny, that does remind me of a conversation we had a month ago or so... we had a big fight, during which he gave me the 'I'm so done with this' speech.
That's when he told me the reason he hadn't filed yet was because he would lose a good bit of income if he got divorced. Apparently that's the way he and his partner (a relative) wrote their business up, that if either divorced the other would lose his half and go back to being a salaried employee.
So obviously when someone tells you that, its shocking. I really thought, yep, its over. That's when I read DR, and things changed. Then, one day he asks me if I hate him now, and I commented about what he said to me and how final/brutal it sounded. His response was, 'oh, well you should have known I just said that because I was mad.'
Reading back what I wrote above, I realized what a jerk he sounds like on paper!
