He has to be able to block her phone number. He should also call the police and let them know she is harassing him and get them involved. My H's ex went psycho on me not too long after we were married and I had to get them involved, but it stopped.
We blocked her on the home phone but I'm hesitant to have him block her on his cell, as I'm worried she'll find another way to contact him -- such as coming to our home or contacting his family. I think blocking her from expressing herself too soon might send her into a rage of despair, and she'd get really desperate. Yikes.
Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
You know, I always said that an A is a deal breaker also. I've since learned that you can't say exactly what you would do for sure in a situation like this until it happens.
Yes, I've always said this as well and in some circumstances, I still believe it should be a deal breaker. (If he actually left me for her, I would not take him back months later - that I know.) No more back and forth drama in my life anymore. I'm done with that, but I am open to at least "considering" that we can have a new M. I wasn't too fond of our old one in recent years either, but this mess has certainly made having a new one whole lot harder.
Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
I am sure your feelings are all over the place. Anger, sadness, etc and I completely understand that. Just take a while to really process everything so you will be able to make a decision not based on emotions
I am in awe of your strength.
Yes, I'm cycling pretty fast but I find posting here calms me down. It's as if the more I talk, the better I feel.
As for being strong, I'm actually surprised I'm not going batch!t crazy (not as in "phoning and threatening ow" crazy (I would never even consider that kind of drama, even before DB), but as in "throwing my H's sorry a$$ in a screaming rage" crazy). Honestly, I think I have learned a lot since I started reading this forum.
