Well, H came home in a grumpy mood, surprise, surprise! He has had a bad cold for over a week now (probably mostly due to his state of mind and lack of sleep). So, he is just complaining that no one cares about him. I tried to be nice and offer him tea with honey and he told me to leave him alone.
Looks like I am going back to the non-pursuit mode.
My being kind to him is annoying him. My AAI is annoying him. My avoidance is annoying him. There is literally nothing that doesn't annoy him. So, I will just do the right thing... whatever that is in this case. I think once he gets over his cold, he will be more civil.
Me: 32/ H: 32/ S13/ D5 T: 15/ M: 8 Rock bottom: 4/11 ILYB: 5/11, but I knew it at least a yr before Gaining acceptance: 8/11
You must be the change you wish to see. - Mahatma Gandhi