Can someone call her h? Would that make things worse? What the heck??
She's officially creeping me out now.
Maybe the one good thing is that she's uniting you guys? Scary and pathetic. She needs help. But that is not your job to get her. Maybe call the cops...tell them she sounds like a danger to herself or you...or her h...?? (which she does!)
Yes, she is definitely showing signs of possible bunny boiling behaviour. (Gee, what a big surprise that H picked such a nutjob ow considering his state of mind.) I take some comfort in the fact that I would never resort to such nonsense.
Anyway, H thinks she's eventually going to stop contacting him in the next couple of days, but I doubt it. I think she may go away for awhile but she'll start up again in a few weeks or a few months. She was counting on my H to leave his family for her, and apparently has her own H moving out by Christmas. (Her big plans are unraveling and she's losing it!)
As for her H, my foolish H still thinks he knows about their R. As for contacting ow's H, I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do because if he doesn't know, then I'm not going to be responsible for bringing another family to it's knees. The fact that she planned to "out" H because she wanted to "share the pain" she was feeling just shows how truly selfish this woman is and I will not participate in fueling her dramatics. That might send her over the edge. (And yes, I am a wee bit scared of what she might do next.) For instance, contacting H's family and outing their A.
Anyway, if she continues with her crazy texts and calls, I've asked my H to tell her he will file a restraining order (not sure if he can in this case though as she's only calling at this point.)
(Gee, what a big surprise that H picked such a nutjob ow considering his state of mind.) I take some comfort in the fact that I would never resort to such nonsense. 
