No, I actually have to agree with you there. It does seem like he is on the fence, like he wants his cake and eat it, too. I definitely don't want to be in a relationship where I feel like he 'settled' for me. I am willing to do what it takes to save my marriage if I can, but I do have some pride!
I keep going back to what Michelle wrote, though, something about don't believe most of what they say?