Sweetie! If you were thinner, he'd want you blonder. If you were blonder, he'd want you to pay more attention to him. If you paid more attention to him, he'd want you to be a better cook.

He is looking to you to fix *him*. And that won't happen. He, internally, has issues and problems that he is expressing as dissatisfaction with you - but it's not. He's not leaving you, he's trying to leave himself - and that just won't work.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11