Originally Posted By: PEImom_of_3
It's either H or not H.

Period.

PEI


not H

That is my gut reaction, my immediate thought when I read your email. and cried.

The nail in the coffin was the fact that he told me tuesday morning they had broke up...but it is Friday and he still lives with her.

I am done, he has done this to me so many times over the last 8 months that it borders on the ridiculous.

When E said H doesn't respect me, he is dead on. when I said I was happy without him, I meant it.

PEI - I don't need a list to finally realize this.

I will do the list later, because it is good and I should have one. But H doesn't fit anything i want anymore.

I will tell him tonight that I am finishing the divorce.

LET ME MAKE ONE THING PERFECTLY CLEAR! I am not doing this BECAUSE OF THE OP! I am doing this because i don't want to do this anymore. I deserve more.

Rubber band has snapped.

TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12