I don't disagree. It's something I'm working on. I've figured out the XW was a trophy wife. I was so proud to be married to her because of how she looked. I guess I figured I could work around the rest.
Funny thing, one of my best friends in high school was the guy who got all the girls. Prom/home coming king who dated all of the hottest babes.
I sooooooooooooo envied him.
His life took a detour in college. He partied too much, flunked out and went to work for his dad, putting in drainage systems at sports fields.
He was working up in Michigan where he met his future wife. I love her. She's extremely smart, extremely funny, just a perfect personality.
She's no beauty though. I always figured he'd marry a beauty queen.
Instead I did. Now I'm divorced and they appear to be going strong, 16 years married now. She made him move away from here because he spent too much time partying with his hard-drinking high school buddies.
Sigh ...
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