Can a marriage survive two affairs?

[25yearsmlc]

we are pro marriage

and I'm telling you that IMO, you are sweeping things under the rug.

Hoping THIS TIME will be the last but not fxing what allows him to do this.

We want the underlying causes addressed, not the triage E.R. room...that's for when you are first here.

Then it's all about getting you thru the day.

now you are in a position to assess the realities and the reality is that this man has had two affairs you know of

and he's sad about losing the OW?

So to me, that means there is a big piece of the puzzle missing.

All I can go by is what happened before, which was "it got fixed" per you...but if so, why'd it happen again?

And neither time he gets c. Maybe if this were the only A,

AND he felt a lot of remorse...but this is the 2nd one and he's not even ready yet to do the work.

SAYS the things you need, finally, but...it's a pattern now...so

as i asked you, Not knowing why this happened AGAIN and NOT addressing that...


Is that really alright with you?

If so, okay.


You originally asked us for our opinions and we're saying that we are worried he's not really getting it.

We bother saying that b/c we are PRO - M and want to see this fixed...not papered over.

make sense?