Shoot ... I knew I posted too quick ... I missed one of the points I wanted to make ...
Originally Posted By: PEI
I was advised to make a list. A written, honest to goodness list. What a potential partner would have to be like, what qualities he would have to have, to be a strong, healthy partner for you. I also made a list of what I brought to the table as a partner. This list has to be faceless! That's the whole point! It can't be H or OM or the dreamboat from down the street ...
This list should be made NOW. If you H is potentially your future partner then it applies to him too ...
Include everything you can think of ...
communication style
desired lifestyle
family relationships
proximity or ability to relocate
children
profession
...that's just the tip of the iceberg, literally, my list is huge ...
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
