I think I have not explained things very well. the first affair things were corrected. He bent over backwards and forwards showed remorse and everything. He did not go to counceling and niether did I the first time. I think I should have then. This second time I do not feel he is completely over it yet to be at the remorse stage. He is getting there. that is why I am in this forum not in piecing. If he was showing remorse and over it completely I think I would be moved on my now. He is working on his mindset. I know that he has a great deal of issues and I have a long way to go before I can trust him but I thought this place was pro marrage. All I ever get is negative feedback. No advise on how I should proceed just what a crap husband I have and pretty mush there is no hope. I give up on this forum.
