That is too extreme. Are you even keeping in touch with your kids? All you're doing is isolating yourself from them. Man up and stop being so afraid. Easier said than done, but you gotta take the first step.
I'm in full contact with my kids. They have my number. I'm isolating from her.
Man up? What? Don't ever question my abilities as a father.
Afraid? No, not afraid...just trying to move on without her coming in and out of my life whenever she feels like it.
If you're going to be an ass then don't respond to my posts.