He had an affair before and did nothing to correct the cause of it. just stopped...for awhile.
Has a 2nd affair and almost ends the marriage and now, finally, more or less decides you're good enough to stick around for. But oops, he has mixed feelings about leaving b/c of OW...
No work on HIM or his flaws or mindset (that makes him prone to serial adultery-these 2 affairs are the ones you know about)...
it's just that he doesn't feel like cheating this week.
And he "Refuses" to go to c? What? Even by himself? OMG talk about not wanting ANY accountability. And this is enough for you?
If it were me, I'd be sick to my stomach every time he's late from work
or on a trip or acting weird, the rest of my life...
Aren't you always going to be waiting for the other shoe to drop? If the underlying problems are not fixed, then they remain.
Sorry
but that's my .02
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
