Hello lc!

I live in a northern suburb of Fort Worth. You've posted some things that made me think we might be in the same area.

I'm not sure what to make of the invites. I think she's being nice, and I think she does miss me some. When we are together, we have a great time. She told me a couple of weeks ago that I will always be her best friend.

Being best friends is probably one of the hardest parts of a good relationship, and it comes natural for us. This whole divorce still doesn't make sense for me, I think its a shame to throw away the past 15 years.

I have noticed her fuse is very short these days. I mentioned earlier how she let loose and hit me several times in the chest about three weeks ago. Last night while dropping off our D, one little comment set her off and she instantly got red in face and argued for about 2-3 minutes.

For some reason I am handling this pretty well now. Earlier in the summer I was a wreck. Now that she moved out last week, I haven't shed a tear and don't think about her nearly as much as I used to. I am actually kind of enjoying the alone time to be honest... something that I never would have predicted.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012