Good restraint on not complimenting her on her weight loss! In my experience, any comment on a woman's weight, positive or negative, never leads to anywhere good! If it's your ex then you might as well fall on a grenade lol. When a woman says "I think I'm fat" you excuse yourself to the washroom ASAP! My new friend said to me recently "I think I need to gain weight" I went into shock, I've never heard that one before. I did the wise thing and said nothing and was able to walk away unscathed! So, CTH never ever go there.