E - first I am going to say that I love ya, then I am going to say that you suck You know me so well it is scary. Everything you said is right and you just have to slap me over the head with it. Can't wait for PEI to chime in - I need her advice too.
I need to figure my sitch out. I will.
I feel like a weeble wobble! back and forth, back and forth. I criticize H for never being able to make a decision and here I am doing the same thing.
I will do a lot of thinking alone over the weekend.
Do not be afraid…to fall in love with someone else that satisfies YOUR needs!
Do not be afraid of how your children will take it!
Do not be afraid of how it might work!
Do not be afraid of challenges that will present themselves!
Do not be afraid of “what people will say”!
Do not be afraid of the family!
IMO, once you decide and act….you will feel a lot better.
Be that with your H or with the new R.
A new beginning is GOOD…..
A new LOVE is GOOD….
Starting from scratch is GOOD….
Be that with your H or a new R.
I leave you with this…..
IMO, your H does not RESPECT YOU. Probably because up to recently you have never laid a boundary down. RESPECT YOURSELF TAMF, enough to do for YOU. I am not saying become a selfish person…no…I am saying….live your life and find your happiness…..
Thank you for these words E...you know i fear them. naturally want to take the path of least resistance. settle. This time I am seriously thinking about not settling
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
You know me so well it is scary. Everything you said is right and you just have to slap me over the head with it. Can't wait for PEI to chime in - I need her advice too.
