Can a marriage survive two affairs?

[MrBond]

"My C says a lot of men do not go to couceling and marrages survive. That men are commited."

Yeah right. Didn't this happen before?

He's being honest with you, not for you but to lessen his own guilty feelings. That's what you don't get. He will only be back when he shows true remorse and not regret. Regret is when he still plays the role of the tortured victim. Remorse is when he really understands all of the hurts that he put YOU through and is willing to do whatever it takes to lessen YOUR fears.

Its good that you are getting help, but let's face it...you weren't the one who had the A. It's just putting a band-aid on things. HE has to come to a self-awareness as to why he did the things he did or else they will happen again.