So enough for this week. Wait until next week before you ask again. Because she will take it as "pressure". So when you hint at going out and she doesn't give you the answer you want. Drop it. Stick to what she CAN give. Don't guilt her into doing something if she is tired. Heck - this is a very tiring week for everyone. One of the busiest weeks of the year.
Frozen peas for the cheeks. Take the Ibuprofen. Second day is the worst for swelling and bruising. It gets way better after that.