Well put, Barb. Of course, I want it to go well. I know she wants to build up a rapport and a trust between us and do that slowly. This is a lady who got knocked up by her fiance and then found out that Mr. Wonderful was still married and living with his wife. She booted him, had the baby and raised him herself. Her boy is the pride and joy of her life. So, we've both got issues re R's. Part of my issue is since Voldemort dropped the big boot on me I have a side that is waiting for bad things to happen. It's like PTSD lol. So, again I have to r---x and recognize that and deal with it. Thanks again for your thoughts, always helpful. Btw, I did FB her and ask if she'd like to have lunch tomorrow but I did say "I know you're settling into a new routine so don't feel pressured. If you're up to it great, if not we'll do it another time." I thought a nice hour or two together would be fun, no 10 hour marathons like we've been doing! She has to go to work in the evening.
