I know he is sad because he will be leaving the OW soon. Even though there is no contact he does see her everyday at work. We leave here in Oct so that means for the rest of his life he will no longer have any contact at all. I really do not want to talk to him about it. It just want to know that if he says he is just a little sad, that it is part of the withdrawal process and that he is just being honest and it is just a normal thing. Is it good that he is honest with me about it at all? My C says a lot of men do not go to couceling and marrages survive. That men are commited. That it is harder for them to adjust and harder overall but they can work. Since I am going for me and my C is helping me that is at least a good step. I read online things to help my H all the time and send him info all the time. He reads some of it and actually does some of it. I am treating it like he is doing his own self counceling through online help.
