The things she is saying are very telling. And they all sound good. So - you either slow down and match her pace or you speed up and possibly push her away. You decide. Is she worth going slow for? Or do you want to rush it and have it end terribly? Obviously - you know the answer.
Ask yourself - is my life better today than it was last month? Again - you know the answer.
And I am guessing that as a single mom - she is trying to make ends meet and that the babysitting helps. It is not about you. She has to take care of her commitments first. That is admirable.
Give her a chance to settle into her new routine then ask her when she might be available to spend some time with you. If she wants things to progress - she'll make the time.
Now - I won't say the 5 letter word that starts with R and ends with X. Oh no - I have this overwhelming desire to play Scrabble! LOL!
