Well, last night I bit the bullet.
I told the STBX to get himself a lawyer. I have one.
I can't do limbo anymore.

I love him, but I can't help him or change his mind.
I love him, enough to wish him well, but not enough to remain his wife in name only.

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.