Barb,it was a little harsh but I'm used to it lol. The problem I have is that I'm the guy and I'm supposed to lead this somehow. She obviously provides me access and I'm supposed to act on it but I don't know what is too much or what is not enough. Am I being too attentive or not enough. How much space do I give her especially when I really like talking, texting, FBing and just plain being with her. It's all a big freakin' mystery to me and everybody says "relax". Btw, I never doubted that MM contacts me because she likes ME...now you're saying maybe she's just being nice!!!Thanks a lot, I'll add that to my worry chest now lol. Gotta go, MM and I are trading Tagalog texts, I'm using a crappy online translator. I'm at a real disadvantage here!