I was afraid my reply was a little harsh. Never meant it to be.
Just try to keep your emotions in check.
Yes - this R is hard to figure out. Is friendship ok with you? If not - would you end the R if it is not going to go further?
There are no guarantees in life. Don't get too hung up on this one - try to relax and just enjoy it.
My daughter, Ashley, used to hang on every text from her BF of a year ago. It drove the rest of us nuts. She was on an emotional roller coaster. It was not Andrew's (BF) fault at all. He had no idea that his failure to text "good night" caused her to not sleep at all. Sad but true.
Ash and BF broke up exactly a year ago but remained friends. She has been dating Kyle since then. I actually liked Andrew better but Kyle is better for Ash because there is no drama. She doesn't get so freaked out over all the "little stuff".
Today she mentioned that she and Kyle might be on the rocks. I won't even be surprised if she goes back with Andrew. But I am betting it will be a new and better R. Because she survived without him. And she knows it.
