PS

My h doesn't recall the sep and asset protection well. But he said several months ago that HE was "glad WE didn't mortgage the house" for his heroes to invest in Alaska with

or we'd have lost the house. Interesting that he recalls it as a joint decision. It wasn't. And at the time, he was pissed.

But I had seen well into 6 figures in asset$$ just gone-- in his crazy time...and I was not going to lose the family home too.

I took the chance that it would worsen things between us by filing, and temporarily it did.

But in the end, I had kids and a home to protect. I owed them & myself some financial security even if it meant losing h for good.

Ironically, seems it's something h is grateful for now.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change