Things have continued to go well with the New Guy. There are so many things that I find intriguing about him.

I still write about X in here as I observe his MLC from afar.

But I was startled that I had a dream that X and I had a new house.

I went through a phase of feeling bad about X lately, but I need to keep him in the rear view mirror. It can be hard to do, but I think the grief can come in waves sometimes. I went for a long time without thinking much about him and then he sort of popped back into my thoughts.

He doesn't contact me and I contact him only as it pertains to our D.

I sense that he might be making some progress in terms of coming out of his MLC, but I guess at this point I am glad primarily for D.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D