DG - I totally get where you're coming from. I don't like "unexpected" contact from my H, because the surprise of it causes an emotional reaction in me and I'm trying to avoid that.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11
