I don't know your situation other than what you posted. But you sure know a lot about your exh and his ow's r.
Have you tried detaching more so Your life goes as well as possible?
I think a lot of us measure how well we are doing by how poorly or well the ex is doing but that's not in our control. Our happiness is. Theirs, or lack of, cannot be an index we use to measure ours by.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016