I'm sorry that you are having to go through this on top of all the other stuff you've had to deal with lately. Although perhaps it gives you a little bit of clarity and insight into the big picture of whats been going on?
The OW's actions are pretty strange - hope it's limited to phone calls and doesn't get any more bizarre.
I know that right now you may feel in shock - so try not to take any irreversible actions for the moment.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.