Thanks so much, lc. I'm in such shock right now. H's father did this to his mother and his second W, and H said he would NEVER resort to an affair. BUT he actually went and planned to have one. I can't believe he would do this to me and to our kids. I'm having a hard time digesting it.
And to make matters worse, the psycho nutjob that he got involved was wanted this to go down with as much drama as possible for payback. Unbelievable. This is the kind of garbage he throws our family away for! I'm going to have her calls blocked. What if she got a hold our D16?
S7 just asked me if I was going to get a lawyer and ask daddy to leave. I said, "I don't know, Honey." And he said, "It's okay, Mama. Just take a deep breath." Kids are so smart sometimes.
Thank-you for your thoughts, Juststunned. That makes so much sense. I'm still reeling and I know I need gather my thoughts before making a decision about whether to ask H to leave right now. I'm too numb to cry so hopefully I'm not scaring my kids with my somber mood but this is so devastating. I've never felt this much emotional pain in my life.
