As I am typing, H sent me a text that he is ordered to go to work. and I LOVE YOU.
I reply: be careful at work. Thank you for loving me.
His reply: so that is what you are saying now?
My reply (which was too emotional): darn it H this is f-ing hard - u tell me u broke up with her yet u r still living with her. u keep telling me over and over that u love me but darn it I will not be your back up plan! don't keep hurting me I beg u.
TAMF what are you doing???
YOU are playing his game. Every time he texts you he is testing you.
As you said, your last text is too emotional. I would have to agree with you.
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As I am typing, H sent me a text that he is ordered to go to work. and I LOVE YOU.
I reply: be careful at work. Thank you for loving me.
His reply: so that is what you are saying now?
Why reply at all? The less you say the more he has to SHOW you.
By not verbally communicating(or at least being short and about the kids only) with him he has a decision to make. 1. He will show you through his actions. 2. He will give up because it's too hard.
Either way, you let him decide and you benefit from either choice he makes.
If you're in a good place right now then time is on your side. Stay strong and calm. You can do it. gr8
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