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Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home AloneAt35 #2184638 09/08/11 04:33 PM
Joined: Apr 2011 Posts: 138 PA, USA A AloneAt35 Member
AloneAt35 Member A Joined: Apr 2011 Posts: 138 PA, USA	Sorry about the double post - computer glitch. Valeria, I suppose MLC is a bit like an illness. If your husband had been mentally ill for 6 years and did terrible things during those years, it would be easy to forgive because he could not be held 100% accountable for his actions. He would be 'not guilty by reasons of insanity'. May I ask (and you don't have to give details) to what your EX-H attributes his behaviors/choices during that period? Does he feel he was 'himself,' in other words, acting rationally? Do you feel he was in control of his choices? Have your perceptions about WHY he did what he did helped you in your healing/understanding/acceptance of your Ex-H now? I do understand how it is possible that you've loved him all of these years - that is truly unconditional love that comes from the best part of ourselves or from our higher power. Its just such a gift you are giving him...He came out the other side and you were still there. Amazing Grace. I'd hate to see that taken advantage of. Six years of heartache-induced growth & independence is a treasure not to be given away lightly. (Not sure I would give mine up if I survive that long!!!) Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011

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6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 08:08 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/05/11 08:34 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	job	09/05/11 08:36 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 08:39 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 08:51 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	job	09/05/11 09:06 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	TRUSTING	09/05/11 09:07 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	25yearsmlc	09/05/11 09:18 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 10:48 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	forward	09/05/11 11:08 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 11:32 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Creed	09/05/11 11:58 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 12:24 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	sunshinelewis	09/06/11 05:24 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 01:05 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 01:43 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/06/11 02:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	mandyloo	09/06/11 04:09 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 07:44 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 08:06 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	25yearsmlc	09/06/11 08:27 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 09:24 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Was2sad	09/06/11 09:36 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	25yearsmlc	09/06/11 09:43 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 09:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/07/11 07:49 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/07/11 12:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/07/11 03:24 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	tadpole1025	09/08/11 02:42 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	tadpole1025	09/08/11 02:44 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 03:52 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 12:02 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 12:46 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	InAPickle	09/08/11 02:08 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 03:00 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	InAPickle	09/09/11 04:12 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 03:10 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 04:14 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	gr8 day 2B alive	09/08/11 04:18 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 04:56 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	gr8 day 2B alive	09/08/11 05:15 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 05:57 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/09/11 04:50 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/09/11 02:14 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/09/11 02:24 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/10/11 07:29 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 12:26 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	irishblessings	09/10/11 12:51 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	seeking answers	09/10/11 01:11 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 01:18 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 01:27 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	exquisitetobe	09/10/11 02:11 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	seeking answers	09/10/11 02:45 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 04:36 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 04:41 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	dollard	09/11/11 11:22 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/11/11 04:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	dollard	09/11/11 05:29 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/11/11 06:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	dollard	09/11/11 08:02 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/11/11 08:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	brueniap	09/18/11 05:48 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/19/11 10:51 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	hopingforchange	10/08/11 04:27 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/09/11 08:48 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 01:50 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 01:51 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 11:01 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 11:45 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 11:52 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 01:13 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 03:03 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	yellowbrickroad	10/10/11 03:14 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 04:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/10/11 06:21 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 06:30 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/10/11 06:54 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 08:01 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 08:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AJM	10/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 11:45 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/11/11 06:32 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AJM	10/12/11 12:08 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/12/11 06:57 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/12/11 11:00 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	yellowbrickroad	10/12/11 11:50 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/12/11 02:51 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	mandyloo	10/16/11 06:40 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	forward	12/09/11 01:42 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	12/13/11 09:38 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	forward	12/17/11 05:45 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 04:33 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/06/11 07:49 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 11:26 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	gr8 day 2B alive	09/08/11 06:05 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 06:13 PM

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