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Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home InAPickle #2184613 09/08/11 03:10 PM
Joined: Apr 2011 Posts: 138 PA, USA A AloneAt35 Member
AloneAt35 Member A Joined: Apr 2011 Posts: 138 PA, USA	Sorry Pickle, I should have clarified. We WEREN'T legally married. We lived in a state that recognized commonlaw partnerships until just a few years ago when we moved again for his work. I said I felt "afraid" of this. He said, "We'll always be together, I'll always take care of you, you know I would never do THAT (abscond with everything)!!" Now I know that was a lie. I've seen a lawyer, I'm entitled to nothing but 50% of the revenue from the sale of the house. And given the market, its not going to be good. He really can (and did) walk away with everything - it was all in his name. I've needed a 2x4 for the last 20 years that I allowed myself to be in this position. Now back to Valeria... Ouch, he built a house for the OW. But if he is genuinely remorseful.... Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011

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Subject	Posted By	Posted
6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 08:08 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/05/11 08:34 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	job	09/05/11 08:36 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 08:39 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 08:51 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	job	09/05/11 09:06 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	TRUSTING	09/05/11 09:07 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	25yearsmlc	09/05/11 09:18 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 10:48 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	forward	09/05/11 11:08 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 11:32 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Creed	09/05/11 11:58 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 12:24 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	sunshinelewis	09/06/11 05:24 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 01:05 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 01:43 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/06/11 02:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	mandyloo	09/06/11 04:09 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 07:44 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 08:06 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	25yearsmlc	09/06/11 08:27 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 09:24 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Was2sad	09/06/11 09:36 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	25yearsmlc	09/06/11 09:43 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/06/11 09:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/07/11 07:49 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/07/11 12:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/07/11 03:24 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	tadpole1025	09/08/11 02:42 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	tadpole1025	09/08/11 02:44 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 03:52 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 12:02 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 12:46 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	InAPickle	09/08/11 02:08 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 03:00 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	InAPickle	09/09/11 04:12 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 03:10 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 04:14 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	gr8 day 2B alive	09/08/11 04:18 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 04:56 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	gr8 day 2B alive	09/08/11 05:15 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 05:57 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/09/11 04:50 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/09/11 02:14 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/09/11 02:24 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/10/11 07:29 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 12:26 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	irishblessings	09/10/11 12:51 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	seeking answers	09/10/11 01:11 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 01:18 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 01:27 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	exquisitetobe	09/10/11 02:11 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	seeking answers	09/10/11 02:45 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 04:36 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/10/11 04:41 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	dollard	09/11/11 11:22 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/11/11 04:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	dollard	09/11/11 05:29 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/11/11 06:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	dollard	09/11/11 08:02 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/11/11 08:50 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	brueniap	09/18/11 05:48 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/19/11 10:51 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	hopingforchange	10/08/11 04:27 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/09/11 08:48 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 01:50 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 01:51 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 11:01 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 11:45 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 11:52 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 01:13 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 03:03 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	yellowbrickroad	10/10/11 03:14 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 04:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/10/11 06:21 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 06:30 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/10/11 06:54 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 08:01 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	oldtimer	10/10/11 08:31 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AJM	10/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/10/11 11:45 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/11/11 06:32 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AJM	10/12/11 12:08 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/12/11 06:57 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	10/12/11 11:00 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	yellowbrickroad	10/12/11 11:50 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	10/12/11 02:51 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	mandyloo	10/16/11 06:40 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	forward	12/09/11 01:42 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	12/13/11 09:38 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	forward	12/17/11 05:45 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	AloneAt35	09/08/11 04:33 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	beatrice	09/06/11 07:49 AM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/05/11 11:26 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	gr8 day 2B alive	09/08/11 06:05 PM
Re: 6+ Years Later ... He Wants to Come Home	Valeria	09/08/11 06:13 PM

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