How do I detach. My focus is already on my d. I'm in school and since finding out about all of this i cant read my assignments. 25years, i am soooo tired of walking on egg shells in my own home.

I feel that if i dont figure out how to detach, i am going to fall completely apart soon. Not eating, not sleeping. The pain is so overwhelming. H just sits and looks at me...almost as if he keeps wishing i'd keel over or just disappear. He looks at me and his eyes are like cold stones with no soul behind it.

I will not snoop again, in a pickle, learned my lesson the hard way.