Well, I got the words. He is commited. He knows what a mistake he made and that he should have never given up on us. He does knows now that he should have never lost sight of what a good team we are and he is so very greatful to me for never giving up on him. The only thing that bugs me is that he did say that when he thinks about leaving here he is a little sad. the sadness is in relation to the OW. That bothers me. Why is he still sad? Is it normal? Am I just expecting too much? Is it normal and is he just telling me too much? I know his feeling for her are just about gone and his feeling for me are back and much stonger then his for her but do I just ignore the little sadness or is it a concern?