That was a great post indeed 2step. As always, I appreciate your words of wisdom.

I had typed something up last night and my computer locked up...then closed my session.

Your post makes perfect sense. Admittedly, I am guilty of reading too much into my W's actions/words and being too available. It sure can be a challenge, however it is of the utmost importance to focus on myself and my children. My W can not be a priority.

You've said it before. If she decides that she wants back into our relationship, it must be as clear as when she wanted out. I very much keep that in mind. There has been no clear indication from her making any movement towards reconciliation.

I hope you are doing well my friend.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa