That was a great post indeed 2step. As always, I appreciate your words of wisdom.
I had typed something up last night and my computer locked up...then closed my session.
Your post makes perfect sense. Admittedly, I am guilty of reading too much into my W's actions/words and being too available. It sure can be a challenge, however it is of the utmost importance to focus on myself and my children. My W can not be a priority.
You've said it before. If she decides that she wants back into our relationship, it must be as clear as when she wanted out. I very much keep that in mind. There has been no clear indication from her making any movement towards reconciliation.
I hope you are doing well my friend.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa