Hello Sadak....I am sorry you are here. There is alot of support on this board. Alot of good people that has been where u are now, including myself.
What I wanted to talk to you about is the fact that you are an "introvert". I am dating a guy that is also an introvert, and I have to say, if you are anything like him, it has to have been a VERY difficult life for your wife at times. I dont understand and WILL NEVER understand how someone can NOT express affection toward someone they love. My bf is not very affectionte, loves to be alone and in fact needs to have a couple days a week COMPLETELY alone. He loves to read, which is good....watch movies and be on his computer. He has NO friends outside of work. His days include, working, home and movies or internet. THAT IS IT! He also most of the time NEVER expresses how he feels unless prompted. He says I already should know these things.
I am telling you this because I want you to realize, if this is you, and from what i read most of it is....this is VERY hard for someone to live with, especially if they are complete opposite. I dont know if your wife is MLC or not, maybe its just a case of being rejected so many times she is numb. I know how this can feel. The five love languages is a GREAT book. Everyones love language is NOT the same. Mine is verbal/touch/feel. My bfs, i believe, is doint good deeds. This book will help you understand alot.
I will say after awhile of being with someone that is unemotional and detached from everything....it is a numb feeling. It is exhausting trying to lay hints of what you need. Even at times expressing your needs, only to fall on deaf ears. Sadak after years of this, I can only imagine how numb your wife feels. Because I am getting there myself. It is gonna take time for her to see that you mean business. Dont give up on her. I hope you dont take offense to what I am saying. I just wanted you to know I know what its like to live with an introvert and be an extrovert yourself.
